Believe that it is special...

While watching a movie, came across this wonderful thought - You gotta believe that a thing or person is special otherwise they are just another form of creation like the rest around them. People often believe that their lives will change if they have that special someone or that special magic or trick surrounding them. Some believe in spells, stones, charms, etc. can cause wonders to their lives. To be honest, these things can, the reason is simple, we believe that they can. That's the key. Even our religious books say the same. To achieve salvation you need to surrender yourself in front of the almighty whom you believe will take care of you and your soul.

The same applies true in our relationships. Yes, there is a always a mutual attraction to start with, that's a spark to ignite the fire. It's meant to separate out the rest from that special someone. However, sadly enough, that spark isn't enough to keep the fire burning, which needs fuel for food and air to breath. Unless we supply both, we won't be able to keep the fire burning strong and long. The fuel is often the easier part, which is more materialistic like doing things to make the person feel special. The tough part however is the air, to strongly believe from inside that the person is indeed special and make the other person believe that you are special to them and they need to believe in you.

Easier said than done, it isn't impossible to achieve. The key is identify, accept and believe in the reasons for which the spark took place in the first place. We always need to be aware whether we are providing enough fuel and air to the fire. Often we notice that we live in a state of denial and accept it the way it is. There is no harm in being content, but if you can't believe that the person is special for you, you need to either amend the same or move on. No point in living with a dis-belief and more worse doing nothing about it. It's not good to let loose threads hang, better to bring them to conclusions.