Trust is what makes a relationship, lack of the same breaks it...

We often wonder what makes or breaks a relationship. It's a 5 letter word called TRUST. It plays an significant role to shape a relationship. All of us at some point of life have come across situations where we feel great about someone and then there are times when we feel terrible. Have we ever thought what contributes to that? Have we ever realized what makes us feel the way we actually do? Sometimes its difficult to analyze and sometimes there are exceptions but it most cases, its the trust we have on someone which when builds up, makes a relationship and when it breaks, destroys the relationship.

Trust is a thin cord, yet if it exists, can withstand unimaginable amount of pull or pressure. It can change lives, can make someone do things not believed to be possible. However, if we are careless, it can snap at the slightest mistake and it's never the same. It can be re-established but there will be a knot in the cord, which takes a toll on the relationship. Its never what it was. Hence, we should nurture this particular aspect to ensure the strength of the relationship.

Bottom line, take care of the trust factor in a relationship to live it, else it will slip out of the hand like dry sand does from your hand...

To be happy, make others happy...

Often people search for happiness in their lives but it's as elusive as fish in flowing water. It appears to be in plenty but tough to grab even one. Pretty weird comparison, but isn't it so true that we often search for happiness without realizing that the only way to be happy is to make people around you happy.

If you are in a relationship, the best way to be happy to make the person you are in relationship with happy. That's the only way to find happiness for yourself and for the other person. If you can find your happiness by making others happy, you have found true happiness which is gonna stay for long.

If you make someone smile, it will make you smile as well. Its easy to find happiness by making others happy since it brings out an satisfaction. Often people don't see that and look for more explicit source of happiness rather than implicit. So let's try to make a difference in someone's life so that we end up getting a part of the smile as well. Even if we don't end up happy, we at least made an attempt to make someone else happy, that isn't any less than an achievement to be proud of.