Life is all about making choices...

This blog reflects the various thoughts that comes into my mind from time to time when I work, play, sleep that is basically live my life. It has got no connection with anyone, but primarily what I think and the way I percieve the world. It might appear junk to someone, valuable to others...so take it the way you want.

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An open minded individual who loves to interact and network with people. I like to travel whenever possible and always interested in new subjects. Love to do photography - capture moments which won't come back. I believe, life is all about making choices, we get to choose one among the many, and the one we choose defines our future and destiny.

Saturday, February 07, 2009

Spacing in relationship...

Space plays a vital role in maintaining and enriching a relationship. We all know that but sometimes we forget in our daily grind. When you see that you have run out of things to talk, there is silence when you should be talking, then either the relationship is shaken or it's going to be shaken. Since, interaction is smooth and fluid when the relationship is in good shape.

Relationships needs suspense, surprise, excitement to keep that divine spark dazzle. If there is no spacing between the individuals it becomes monotonous and routine. That's something which shouldn't creep into a relationship. If it does, it needs to be eliminated at the earliest, else in no time, the relationship will be destroyed. What's needed is offering space and just not expect the other person to offer space. Every individual grows, flourishes and blooms when there is space around. The growth is restricted, if in every aspect of life, the relationship plays a role.

So the choice to be made is to how to space the relationship to ensure it to grow well and enjoy the growth, instead of letting it suffocate and reel under lack of space. Of course, short distance, ensuring space make hearts desire more and make them fonder. The balance of how much the spacing should be varies with the relationships and the individuals in the same.

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