Expecting change
Often people say, change is consistent, very true ! However, the fun is change isn't always predictable specially when it involves human souls. We undergo various changes in our lives knowingly and unknowingly. Sometimes, we believe in the change, sometimes we become a part of the change. For some of us, we bring about a change.
Life gets tough when we expect a change. Expectations are there within every individual and hence, all of us are expecting something or the other to change. Some are expecting change that are professional, some others are expecting change that is personal. There are even those, who don't wish things to changes as they are comfortable and enjoying the way they are now. However, change is imminent, it sometimes changes for the better and sometimes for the worse.
How do we deal with this change? Should we live in fear of a change? Should we hold our other actions in anticipation of a change? Should we just let change happen to us without making an effort to stop or support it? We often come across such questions. Most people are of the theory, wait and watch. Some people believe God will help them and some even are superstitious to changes.
The most practical way is to reduce, we can't get rid of, the expectation of change. With every moment, comes a new one, we choose to make the best of it or worse of it. We should live the present moment to the fullest and not worry about changes. There is something we can do even when we are in the worst of situations. Life teaches us that we are traversing a circular path and we come back to where we started from. Life is a full circle, so if you are having your share of pain, you will definitely have your share of happiness. However, choosing to be happy or sad that is reacting to a situation is completely on us. We can't blame anyone, but ourselves as we can't pat anyone but ourselves to be sad or happy respectively.
So, welcome the change, adopt to it, live life king-size. Someone wise said that don't count the hours when you are happy or sad, make every hour of your life count in living it, no point brooding or worrying about the forthcoming change.
Life gets tough when we expect a change. Expectations are there within every individual and hence, all of us are expecting something or the other to change. Some are expecting change that are professional, some others are expecting change that is personal. There are even those, who don't wish things to changes as they are comfortable and enjoying the way they are now. However, change is imminent, it sometimes changes for the better and sometimes for the worse.
How do we deal with this change? Should we live in fear of a change? Should we hold our other actions in anticipation of a change? Should we just let change happen to us without making an effort to stop or support it? We often come across such questions. Most people are of the theory, wait and watch. Some people believe God will help them and some even are superstitious to changes.
The most practical way is to reduce, we can't get rid of, the expectation of change. With every moment, comes a new one, we choose to make the best of it or worse of it. We should live the present moment to the fullest and not worry about changes. There is something we can do even when we are in the worst of situations. Life teaches us that we are traversing a circular path and we come back to where we started from. Life is a full circle, so if you are having your share of pain, you will definitely have your share of happiness. However, choosing to be happy or sad that is reacting to a situation is completely on us. We can't blame anyone, but ourselves as we can't pat anyone but ourselves to be sad or happy respectively.
So, welcome the change, adopt to it, live life king-size. Someone wise said that don't count the hours when you are happy or sad, make every hour of your life count in living it, no point brooding or worrying about the forthcoming change.
posted by ~Soumen | Sunday, December 27, 2009
5 Comments:
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Brim over I assent to but I think the post should have more info then it has.
I just read an article on problem solving. I searched the web and found your thoughts regarding our lives as a circular event. I could not agree more and was simply looking for additional insights and found it here and then some! thank you!
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